Archive for April 20, 2012

Image In Our Society: A Recipe For Disaster By Adam Lamparello

The article below reveals a shocking statistic — girls between the ages of eleven and thirteen believe that they are fat. This is a time when they should be enjoying their lives. This is a time when they should be living happy lives with their friends and families. Instead, they see themselves as fat and develop a poor body image.

As a result, many of these women go on “fad” diets, excessively exercise or use other methods to achieve what they believe to be the “perfect” or “beautiful” body.

The problem is that it does not stop there. Another study found that eighty percent of adult women are dissatisfied with their appearance and approximately ten million Americans suffer from eating disorders. Additionally, with the images shown on television, in magazines and other social media, this only worsens the problem. These images, and the messages they send, have nothing to do with true beauty. They are merely superficial attempts to present beauty in a way that is either unattainable or that, quite truthfully, won’t lead to true and lasting happiness.

Indeed, there has even been a sixteen percent rise in the rate of eating disorders among men.

Undoubtedly, the time has come for us not only to have a discussion about the deadly nature of eating disorders, but to change the messages that society conveys about true beauty, happiness, self-esteem, self-worth and leading a meaningful, purposeful and rewarding life. It may be a difficult battle, but through hard work and a continuing campaign to raise awareness we can re-define the nature of true beauty, which is really about each person’s special, unique and wonderful qualities.

http://www.pennlive.com/editorials/index.ssf/2012/04/image_is_everything_unfortunat.html

Ali Lohan Showing Signs Of Malnutrition By Adam Lamparello

In a sad article, Ali Lohan, the sister of Lindsay Lohan, has been photographed looking extraordinarily malnourished and thin, which has raised alarms among experts who have seen such photographs. While stopping short of diagnosing her with an eating disorder, it appears that Ali Lohan is attempting to pursue a career in the modeling industry, and perhaps (and this is completely speculative) she believes that there is a certain weight that must be achieved in order to become successful in this incredibly difficult business. The article also reports that Ali Lohan’s mother, Dina Lohan, is trying to make her another “breadwinner” for the family.

All of this is very sad. When someone is malnourished or in a state where they are not healthy, they need support, love and care. This does not seem to be the case and as the pictures in the article below reveal, Ali Lohan does not look good. Internally, we cannot know how she is feeling.

What we can say is that we hope that Ali Lohan has friends and loved ones around her who love her unconditionally and want what is best for her — a healthy, happy and wholesome life. A skinny and malnourished body is not beauty — it is sadness. Let’s hope that Ali Lohan is doing ok, that she is doing the best to take care of herself and that she achieves her passions and dreams in a happy and healthy manner.

http://www.hollywoodlife.com/2012/04/19/ali-lohan-skinny-pics-eating-disorder-malnutrition/

Today’s Daily Affirmation By Adam Lamparello

Hi everyone,

I hope you have a fantastic weekend! Listen to “Bridge Over Troubled Water” by Elvis Presley.  It will inspire you :-)

“It’s not simply about stepping “outside of the box.” It’s also about creating your new “box.”